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Volunteer to serve or work at a triathlon event. 300 in shape, successful guys.

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If she met a man as accomplished she would hate him. She sounds difficult and not content with the simple things. Any dating site is toxic.

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It’s all changed too much. The loss of trust is a recipe for doom. That where we are. Who do you trust? And even those you do will end up selling you out for the right offer IF it comes around. Something very sinister has occurred. We are only beginning to recognize it. It’s a one night stand World. A thirst that is never quenched. We ALL built it with help from those who wanted to get rich. Every week one of those rich guys or girls parks their car in a garage with the motor running and music playing and says goodbye cruel world. It’s not a dating problem. It’s a society problem. Everybody’s on their own. Companies will soon begin tanking in record fashion. Guaranteed! That what will you do!?!?

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got me thinking about what the opposite is for men... yoga classes? curious people’s thoughts

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Good advice! I am concerned about my 22 year old daughter being able to find a decent man. It is certainly not happening in college. She has been asked several times for non-committal sex from guys that are in the friend category but dating and romance are not part of it. It makes me sad for her and for my sons' future prospects for marriage and family. The Instagram/Only Fans culture is soul sucking.

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In order to address her concern you need to know what she's looking for in a man. Then you need to know if she's sincere about it.

Then you can get on a path to knowing what her issue is.

She also paints a picture of herself that leaves out the potential that she's absolutely grating AF.

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My dating advice is, "Refuse to settle, and then try to find someone that will."

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